Cut comparison & become your most authentic self
At the age of 8, it was the girl in my dance class. She got picked to do the solo in the summer show. It didn’t matter how hard I trained, I’d never be as good as her.
At 12, it was my brother - talented, likeable, smart, popular… It didn’t matter what I achieved, I’d never be as impressive as him.
Then, at 16, it was the girl in my maths class who all the boys fancied thanks to her long legs and flowing, blonde hair. It didn’t matter how much make-up I wore, I’d never be as pretty as her.
At 21, it was the mystery candidate who got the internship I desperately wanted. At 25, it was the friend who got engaged, the colleague picked for the promotion.
At almost every stage there’s been a ‘them’, a ‘me’ and an ongoing comparison battle to navigate.
And I know this isn’t unique to me - comparison seems to have a fast-track pass into all of our weakest moments, convincing us we are, and always will be, less than those around us.
Never quite smart enough. Never quite thin enough. Never quite funny enough.
It’s a funny old word ‘enough’, and one that comes up with almost every single client I work with.
It stops us applying for jobs, going on dates, speaking up, booking trips.
In other words, it keeps us stuck.
But you know what I say? ENOUGH is enough.
Imagine reaching the end of your life and realising you spent your one precious shot being paralysed by what you didn’t have rather than what you did.
Imagine how different your journey would feel if you put that energy into building a life that you love instead.
That’s why I’ve created a workshop called ‘Cut Comparison & Become Your Most Authentic Self’.
This online session will give you practical tools to minimise comparison, and help you build genuine and lasting self-confidence.
Plus, you’ll get to do that in a safe and supportive environment with women who feel exactly like you do.
All the details are below - you can book your space today by sending me a DM on Instagram, or emailing hello@the-healingfeeling.co.uk.
I hope to see you there - let’s do this together!
Grow alongside others in these safe and friendly group coaching workshops. Each online session centres on a fresh, powerful theme designed to inspire, educate and motivate.
‘Cut Comparison & Become Your Most Authentic Self’ - Wednesday 4th March at 7pm.
This is for you if:
You struggle with comparing yourself to others
You want to learn practical tools to minimise comparison
You’re ready to build genuine and lasting self-confidence
Email hello@the-healingfeeling.co.uk to book your space.